Every couple wants their wedding to feel like them—not just another ceremony, but a celebration full of surprise, delight, and those magical, unexpected moments that guests will talk about long after the last dance. And one of the most powerful ways to make that happen? Music.

A well-placed song can turn a traditional moment into something unforgettable—whether it’s an epic, unexpected processional that makes jaws drop, a teary-eyed tribute during the vows, or a playful first dance that catches everyone by surprise. But how does that moment go from an idea to a reality?
The Secret Behind a Show-Stopping Music Moment
One of my couples recently asked me to play “Casual” by Chappell Roan for their first dance, and I couldn’t be more thrilled about it. These kinds of song choices—personal, unexpected, and totally unique to the couple—are what make wedding music so special. I love weaving in these “Easter egg” moments for my couples, and I love seeing their (and their guests’) faces when they recognize the song!
But making sure that moment lands—that it carries the right emotion and feels effortless—is where the behind-the-scenes magic happens.
Create a Moment That
No One Has Heard Before
Step 1: Personalizing the Soundtrack to Fit Your Vibe
This isn’t just picking a song—it’s crafting the right version of it. Does the moment call for something soft and intimate or bold and dramatic?
Step 2: Fine-Tuning the Details for Maximum Impact
I made sure that the tempo and phrasing was at an approachable pace so that the music flows and will perfectly pair with their first dance.
Step 3: Practice, Adjust, Perfect—Because “Good Enough” Isn’t Good Enough
This is where I make sure the arrangement doesn’t just sound good but feels right. The music needs to be soft and fluid for dancing while still having a natural rise and fall—building and easing in a way that keeps it engaging. It should guide the moment, telling a story with a clear beginning, a dynamic middle, and a natural, satisfying conclusion.

I love working with couples who want to go beyond the expected and turn their wedding soundtrack into something truly unforgettable. If you have a song in mind—or even just a feeling you want to capture—let’s make it happen.

Hi, I'm Christie!
With over 29 years of experience mastering the violin, I specialize in crafting bespoke setlists and arrangements that reflect your unique vision and preferences. Recognized with awards like "The Best of the Bash" and The Knot Best of Weddings, I'm dedicated to creating unforgettable musical experiences tailored to your event.
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